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1 FV—Why do I keep wanting to understand and change someone’s ways? Why does it cause me so much consternation to try to figure out and understand, becoming so tedious and frustrating that I no longer know what to think, what to do, or how to act or react? As I become aware of it, it makes me angry and confused…
2 CFKW—All you are trying to do is live someone else’s life, as if you wanted to live two or more lives; yours and another’s, yours and others’, while seeking to balance them by wanting the other or others to act as you would, in accordance with your own understanding of how things should manifest.
3 As you try to make it your own, you become involved and entangled, forcing it to align with your way, your understanding, your perception, and your goal.
4 That is how we are all One—when (*)we seek to identify ourselves with our surroundings and to understand them so we can bring balance, for if we understand, then we can stand against what is out of balance.
5 As the process of understanding unfolds, we feel at ease because it aligns with our thinking mind, or we try to shape ourselves according to someone else’s thinking process so we can be at peace or in harmony with the thought-form of others, no longer feeling the controlling aspect of life and instead living in conformity by adjusting and framing ourselves to an understanding. You see?
6 If I want to understand someone else’s thinking process, it is I who am trying to shift, or be shifted, into a particular form of thinking. It is through the process of understanding that we enter into conformity.
7 By doing so, we enter into harmony. As we do, we stop struggling with our own thinking process about how things should be, based on teachings, preconceptions, and prior understanding.
8 We align so that our thinking process goes along with the way we have been taught—not necessarily with the way it truly is—and the way it is becomes merely a given definition, which in itself becomes a paradox.
9 How can you relate to something when that something can be seen from countless perspectives, in so many different ways, with so many interpretations that no one would even dare to say one way of thinking is right and another is wrong?
10 Take, for instance, the understanding of science, recognizing that it is based on the laws of physics that govern the thinking process of materialization in this plane of reality. In conformity with those principles, a theory arises, later to be observed in manifestation and then confirmed. You see?
11 But that scientific theory can be altered, leading to something else, so what once was no longer is. You see? It changes form based on new understandings of how one thing can be manipulated and transformed into another within the realm of reality.
12 This is a subject we can explore more deeply and endlessly, but for now, take it as it is, because the body is already tired and the thinking process becomes confused. There will be plenty of opportunities to address it properly in the future.
13 For now, keep this in mind: Do not attempt to live someone else’s life. You already have one that is complex enough on its own. Focus on your own life and do not worry about others, for each individual has a purpose. You must allow the other individual aspects of yourself to manifest as they should, in their own ways, because it is only through each one’s personal experience and suffering that one comes to understand how things truly work.
14 The advice given is only a temporary patch. Allow people to manifest in their own way and offer guidance only when asked. Do not try to make someone else understand—wait until they seek your advice and come to you. Do not force things, for things cannot be forced.
15 Don’t try to make others understand what you already understand. It is like writing a book: You share the information with everyone, some will read it and pass it along, but the reading itself must be done alone by the reader. Do not worry about the outcome, for the path will be given, and allow each individual to manifest as they should.
16 I know it is confusing, I know the impulse is hard to overcome. I know holding back can be challenging, yet the time to guide will come. Focus now on fulfilling your (*)end of the bargain, and I promise you will manifest as you should, in due time.
17 Work hard, for you are halfway through. Now comes the other half: the first half was the learning curve, and the second is the unfolding process—detach, detach, detach.
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Annotations
Article 4—Here I speak in an intertwining manner between the first and third person through non-dual awareness. It reflects the altered state in which I speak interchangeably as “I” (the experiencer) and the Collective Force of Knowledge and Wisdom (who delivers the message) as I become both the doer and the observer.
Article 16—My end of the bargain can be found in the First Transcript Article 39.